What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 04:30
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
How can I handle my distrust and jealousy for my partner?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
If sea levels were rising, wouldn't the acreage of coastal salt marshes increase? Are they?
If you win, what will you make them do?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Why is the show The Big Bang Theory so hated?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Please share Did you stop?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
Can you explain the difference between an ego, soul, mind, and consciousness?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
Why are the Chinese so sensitive to Western criticism?
29- How superstitious are you?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Watch ULA launch Amazon's 2nd batch of Kuiper internet satellites today - Space
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Is it wise to SECRETLY expose a narcissist by telling others that he/she is a covert narcissist?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Why can’t my wife just accept the fact that I’m going to cheat?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Nothing too Serious
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
*** Random Questions ***
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Would you read them together?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Any that are a turn off?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Any that are a turn off?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
What is your favorite position? Why?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
39~ What are your love languages?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
The Ice Breaker Questions
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
How old are you? Male or Female?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Family Relation Age Play
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
*** Questions About Me ***
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
If yes, what?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
52~ What are your hobbies?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?